Saturday, June 19, 2010
9:00am til noon
Nonviolent Communication Basics
This Saturday we will begin to explore the basics on Nonviolent Communication. We will discuss the four components (observations, feelings, needs, requests) and the two parts (expressing honestly and listening empathetically). We will also talk about communication that blocks compassion.
Saturday, June 26, 2010
9:00am til noon
NVC in Action
This Saturday is dedicated to creative practices to help us to remember why we are interested in nonviolent communication and how to do it even when relationships get difficult. There will be time dedicated for those interested to practice using NVC consciousness in situations direct from their own lives.
Cost: $30.00 per workshop, $50.00 if you register for both.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Thursday, April 22, 2010
New Video on Network Care!!
Check out this video! It was produced by my friend Dr. Jane Arzt at The Vitality Center in Oakland, California. It highlights some of the wonderful benefits that Network Care practice members see in their lives. Click here to watch.
Language of Life Workshop in Kimberton
On June 5 & 6, I will be offering a Language of Life weekend workshop at Kimberton Wellness Connection in Kimberton, PA. This workshop is a more in-depth introduction to Nonviolent Communication. Click here for details. Call the office to register or for more information.
Monday, April 12, 2010
Language of Life Workshop -- Two Days - Two Ways!
Saturday, May 1, 2010
9:00am til noon
Nonviolent Communication Basics
This Saturday we will begin to explore the basics on Nonviolent Communication. We will discuss the four components (observations, feelings, needs, requests) and the two parts (expressing honestly and listening empathetically). We will also talk about communication that blocks compassion.
Saturday, May 8, 2010
9:00am til noon
NVC in Action
This Saturday is dedicated to creative practices to help us to remember why we are interested in nonviolent communication and how to do it even when relationships get difficult. There will be time dedicated for those interested to practice using NVC consciousness in situations direct from their own lives.
Cost: $30.00 per workshop, $50.00 if you register for both.
9:00am til noon
Nonviolent Communication Basics
This Saturday we will begin to explore the basics on Nonviolent Communication. We will discuss the four components (observations, feelings, needs, requests) and the two parts (expressing honestly and listening empathetically). We will also talk about communication that blocks compassion.
Saturday, May 8, 2010
9:00am til noon
NVC in Action
This Saturday is dedicated to creative practices to help us to remember why we are interested in nonviolent communication and how to do it even when relationships get difficult. There will be time dedicated for those interested to practice using NVC consciousness in situations direct from their own lives.
Cost: $30.00 per workshop, $50.00 if you register for both.
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Stages of Emotional Liberation
We all go through stages of emotional experience. In Nonviolent Communication we identify three primary stages of emotional maturity, the last of which is emotional liberation.
Many of us start at Stage 1, which is thinking that we are responsible for other people's feelings. At this stage, we feel bad if our partners are distressed and we worry about hurting other people's feelings. We often deny our own happiness so that others will be happy. We also believe that others are responsible for our feelings. Ad we feel bad when we think they have done something that causes our unhappiness.
Stage 2 is when we start to notice and grieve how much of our life has been spent denying our own happiness Very often, people at this stage feel angry and resentful, and meeting their own needs becomes urgent. At this stage, people tend to say things like, "That's your problem; I'm not responsible for your feelings." This can look like entering into a conversation or negotiation only concerned with getting our own needs met.
In Stage 3, we integrate the first two stages. We come to realize that everyone is responsible for their own feelings, and we also recognize our role if we do something that stimulates pain in another person. We also start to value the needs of everyone, not just the other person's needs or our own. The world seems more abundant as we realize that it is possible to value everyone's needs equally. As this happens, we become able to consider everyone's feelings and needs without taking responsibility for them. We are free to be compassionate and loving to many people, even ourselves. Indeed, we have reached emotional liberation.
It seems that once have an experience of stage 3, we still have moments of each stage depending on what is occurring in our lives. As you become more practiced in NVC consciousness (stage 3), you can actively direct your responses from that understanding. I use the word practice quite purposefully here. Being able to direct your attention to your needs and the other person's needs, and distinguish these from your ideas of what has gone wrong (especially when you are feeling upset) is emotional liberation. And most often will lead to productive and often intimate, or at least enjoyable conversations and relationships. And doing this take practice.
Parts of this post are based on an excerpt from Peaceful Living: Daily Meditations for Living with Love, Healing, and Compassion by Mary Mackenzie.
Many of us start at Stage 1, which is thinking that we are responsible for other people's feelings. At this stage, we feel bad if our partners are distressed and we worry about hurting other people's feelings. We often deny our own happiness so that others will be happy. We also believe that others are responsible for our feelings. Ad we feel bad when we think they have done something that causes our unhappiness.
Stage 2 is when we start to notice and grieve how much of our life has been spent denying our own happiness Very often, people at this stage feel angry and resentful, and meeting their own needs becomes urgent. At this stage, people tend to say things like, "That's your problem; I'm not responsible for your feelings." This can look like entering into a conversation or negotiation only concerned with getting our own needs met.
In Stage 3, we integrate the first two stages. We come to realize that everyone is responsible for their own feelings, and we also recognize our role if we do something that stimulates pain in another person. We also start to value the needs of everyone, not just the other person's needs or our own. The world seems more abundant as we realize that it is possible to value everyone's needs equally. As this happens, we become able to consider everyone's feelings and needs without taking responsibility for them. We are free to be compassionate and loving to many people, even ourselves. Indeed, we have reached emotional liberation.
It seems that once have an experience of stage 3, we still have moments of each stage depending on what is occurring in our lives. As you become more practiced in NVC consciousness (stage 3), you can actively direct your responses from that understanding. I use the word practice quite purposefully here. Being able to direct your attention to your needs and the other person's needs, and distinguish these from your ideas of what has gone wrong (especially when you are feeling upset) is emotional liberation. And most often will lead to productive and often intimate, or at least enjoyable conversations and relationships. And doing this take practice.
Parts of this post are based on an excerpt from Peaceful Living: Daily Meditations for Living with Love, Healing, and Compassion by Mary Mackenzie.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
NVC Practice Groups in February
Two NVC Practice Groups are scheduled for February. Thursday, February 4 we will be focusing on needs with a NEATEN YOUR NEEDS practice, and Tuesday, February 16 we will be doing another DANCE FLOORS. They both offer a fun way to practice your NVC skills in a playful, comfortable setting. The practice groups begin at 7:30pm with a remembering (centering process). We complete the evening with Celebrations and Mournings and will send you on your way by 9:00pm.
Saturday, January 2, 2010
Language of Life Workshop - San Francisco - Jan 30 & 31
I am very excited to return to beautiful San Francisco and the Magnolia Chiropractic & Wellness Center to offer my Language of Life Workshop. Dr. Stephanie Bridwell's center in San Francisco offers practice members and friends a variety of health care programs supporting her dedication to their wellbeing. Her commitment to being a neighborhood healing center is inspiring. Please join us for this weekend of discovering our compassion and learning skills to become less aligned with our conflicting strategies, thoughts and judgments and become more aligned with the endless possibilities of life.
Workshop Dates: January 30 and 31
Location: Magnolia Chiropractic & Wellness Center, 133 Magnolia Lane, San Francisco, Ca 94123
Contact to register: call: 415-931-5878 or email: stephanie@magnoliachiropracticcenter.com
Questions or concerns or for more information: Please contact Dr. Terrie Lewine at 215-928-8898 or terrie@getbacktolife.org or Dr. Stephanie Bridwell at 415-931-5878 or stephanie@magnoliachiropracticcenter.com
Workshop Dates: January 30 and 31
Location: Magnolia Chiropractic & Wellness Center, 133 Magnolia Lane, San Francisco, Ca 94123
Contact to register: call: 415-931-5878 or email: stephanie@magnoliachiropracticcenter.com
Questions or concerns or for more information: Please contact Dr. Terrie Lewine at 215-928-8898 or terrie@getbacktolife.org or Dr. Stephanie Bridwell at 415-931-5878 or stephanie@magnoliachiropracticcenter.com
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